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Trick or Treat Original Art & Story by (c) Sandra Russell |
Halloween or 'holy eve' refers to the evening before November first aka "All Saints Day". It is a long tradition of belief that the souls of the dead; good and bad, arise to walk among the living on this day, maybe even crossing into heaven or hell. In medieval times beggars would knock on doors and receive gifts of sweet cakes sometimes called 'soul cakes' and would in exchange say a prayer for the soul of departed members of that household. Given that winter was by then well on its way and cold and winter afforded no promise of bounty, this seems a practical last celebration of summer?
In the 1930's "Beggar's night" was the eve before the eve of "All Saint's day" and children would dress up as scary monsters or lost souls, to scare away any real bad souls that might be up and about. Still others would do the opposite and be fairies, heros, angels, and clowns. Any disguise of self was a protection against the 'bad guys'.
Again, the dating of the practice of giving apples, candy and snacks to children going door to door is a practical one. Considering the great depression beginning in 1929 and then the rationing of sugar during the second world war anything like coffee tea and fine snacks was not in every household.
My father would tell us about his trick or
treating experiences as he grew up in the 30's being born in '29. He lived in
the mining town of Mineral, Ohio. He told us about the community flavor of the
holiday and how the neighborhood would sponsor social activity for the kids and
chaperones in the form of wiener roasts, taffy pulls, and bobbing for
apples. The boys took the 'trick' part of the treating to heart as well. No
toilet papering houses, doubt they had toilet paper? Sears catalogs in the
outhouses more likely. He would tell of the popular sport of tipping outhouses
over at that time, and how men would prowl with shotguns to protect them. A
favorite 'trick' of sorts was to spook one another in the local cemetery with
hide and seek games and given that the cemetery was also a 'common' for grazing
cows, many cow patties were left to be used in battle. Much like a snowball
fight in winter, the boys would make fortress behind tombstones and lob one
another with the dried bovine droppings. One Halloween, his dad (maybe his last
Halloween, as he died when my dad was only twelve) they were playing this sport
and the pop joined in, threw some good ones (he was the pitcher for the Buchtel
White Sox). But then that triumph came to an end when he caught one in the
face, bottom side up. Yeah, still fresh on the underside. My dad would seldom
smile, but he would when retelling this story.
Abbott "Pete" Smith D.V.M.: June 16, 1938 - February 22, 2010 Virginia Joyann "Jody" Haley Smith: April 2, 1938 - May 9, 2021 |
It’s tradition to tell ghost stories this time of year. There are many stories best told around an autumn campfire. My mother would read Little Orphant Annie, a favorite spooky poem by James Whitcomb Riley, as we cuddled by the fire.
Jody and I talked often about spirits. She once had an encounter in the bedroom of her historic Milliron farmhouse. As she settled into bed, she felt a presence in the room and said, “If thou be of Christ, stay. If not, leave!” She told this story several times and I have used her words on occasion.
After an insider’s view to the Smith family library, it was a delight to read Stanley Ghost Stories, edited by Susan S. Davis, Pete’s sister. Ectoplasm, orbs, mist, moans, murmurs, and more create a collection of stories that will engage every reader. You can purchase Stanley Ghost Stories from Amazon. Susan is the founder of the Stanley Museum in Kingfield, Maine. She has first-hand insight to the Stanley family, including this collection of ghostly stories of the Stanley Hotel and homes. The Stanley Hotel, Estes Park, Colorado, inspired Stephen King’s The Shining. King and his wife were guests in the hotel when King penned the bestseller.
Stanley Ghost Stories edited by Susan S. Davis |
Blennerhassett Island, Ohio River, West Virginia |
Blennerhassett
Island Under a Full Hunter’s Moon
My sister and brother-in-law recently celebrated a three decade+ anniversary by going to a special dinner on Blennerhassett Island in the Ohio River. The night they chose coincided with a full moon conjunction with the planet Jupiter, the winter's evening star. They took a ferry boat from Belpre to the island and as the sunset turned to darkness, the candle lights on the island were the only illumination for the guest's arrival, creating a magical sensation, floating slowly over water aiming for a puddle of golden fires.
This evening was a special event for the island
as well. This weekend was also an anniversary for the Blennerhassett settlement
and residence of the tiny island. Tonight was a special feast and a
reenactment of a 'servant's party' staged for the year 1805. Guests were
encouraged to dress in period clothing as well in order to keep the illusion
going of stepping into the shoes of the settlers. Besides a dinner of
traditional turkey, vegetables, and gingerbread, there were performances by costumed
dancers and musicians. Some listened to storytellers telling 'ghost stories'
and historic information about place, such as the rarity and value of the glass
window in an Ohio cabin of the day. After dinner they strolled the grounds
outside the house, found gravel walkways lined with fire baskets to warm hands
along the paths. They also managed to catch a ride in a horse drawn wagon
before returning to ferry home.
Blennerhassett Island, Ohio River, West Virginia |
Blennerhassett Island, Ohio River, West Virginia |
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Original Art (c) Sandra Russell |
We wonder how different our lives might have been "if only"? I wake up sometimes, not from nightmares, but from what I would call 'bad dreams' and in common these dreams feature myself younger, on streets I no longer walk or with people who have passed away or maybe just really aren't features in my life and I wonder what is that all about? Maybe I should have gone to the dance, or gone to that other school or said, no to that one boy and yes to another?
The trouble with this sort of thinking is that we still only are giving ourselves a sort of fork in the road, and that's a contemporary fork we see now because of our experiences. Maybe those mistakes were exactly what we had to do under the circumstances at the time? The other problem with this is that we are still doing an either/or sort of frame on this little scene.
The other day I considered how often I do this, and suddenly it occurred to me that there is often if not always, a third choice, maybe a fourth choice and more?! I decided that the path of regret, belongs to a backward glance only as far as you can use that to make today better for yourself and those around you. Trying to relive a past not lived is to walk backward down a rabbit hole. It will only rob you of today and your tomorrows. So, shake that off, look at the beautiful leaves and scents of fall, and drink it in as living this moment richly. Appreciation is the key to moving forward. Happy trails!
Dr. Joann Fokes and Boogie, July 22, 2000 |
Abbott "Pete" Smith D.V.M.: June 16, 1938 - February 22, 2010 Virginia Joyann "Jody" Haley Smith: April 2, 1938 - May 9, 2021 |
Today we send sincere condolences to the family of Dr. Joann Fokes. Joann, a good friend of the Smith family, spent many hours on the Milliron Farm trails. In the above photo, dressed and ready to attend Jessica's outdoor wedding, Dr. Fokes is riding Boogie, her beautiful Paso Fino.
Wow, so I just experienced a once in a lifetime event. I was the mother of the bride at a wedding in Los Angeles. The bride and groom paid for their own event as they are both mature and independent. I was treated simply as an honored guest, which was quite a treat. The venue quite out of reach and exotic for a country lover such as myself, but I like to think I am flexible (though, the traffic in LA does make me cringe; at least I didn't have to drive).
First of all, I flew cross country. I haven't been further than 150 miles from home for 9 yrs. Then land to meet my future son in law for the first time and get dropped off at an air B&B where I meet old friends and family to share a 4-bedroom house til the wedding. The back yard is filled with fruit trees; figs, oranges, and even pomegranates! I didn't know they grew on trees? I tried to sketch and watercolor a few of them, but again much was going on to draw focus.
I won't bother to mention some of the side trips we took but go straight to the wedding/reception. I shook out my fancy mother of the bride dress and was glad the wrinkles dropped out of it. Wedding planners, and makeup people and photographers told me where to go, and how long to wait. Suddenly it was time to walk down the aisle. My sister and I followed the groom’s mother and father to music from a huge pipe organ, felt like Buckingham palace. My co-mom and I lit two candles then took our seats. After the vows and ring exchanges the couple took the candles we lit and lit a third large candle to seal the union. It was all very elegant.
Then we were driven to the reception where we also stayed the night. The Langham Hotel in Pasadena. This hotel was built between 1915 and finished in the thirties. It is quite glamorous, and the service is fantastic. I found that even with my arthritis and lack of general athleticism, that having a group of friends, a live band, and a meal to dance off, got me up onto the dance floor a few times. I had to laugh at one point as well, when one song came on, two of the girls I was dancing with (now in their mid-forties), I had danced with in our humble old cabin when they were in grade school and high school! Now here we were again, dancing to the same song in a posh hotel filled with flowers and champagne...It was just so sweet; and they were laughing too.
The Langham Hotel, Pasadena California |
The courtyard |
A week after my accident I helped a man back out a giant panel truck that was boxed in by other cars at a grocery in town. He was a huge fellow and had no room to open any of his doors to climb in. He begged me to back it out of there for him. He looked flushed in the face sweaty and short of breath. I was so scared to drive such a thing in reverse with no windows, but told him to 'watch my back and get out of the way.' Took less than a minute to do, but I was shaking.
Later two women came up to me to thank me for 'being there.’ I am scared of parking lots now more than ever. So, I'm on the alert; being extra cautious. Life is full of little ironies or mother nature jokes or? Just an hour ago, I parked the car to run into a local grocery store for one thing. As I was walking from the car to the store could scarcely believe my eyes; two cars were backing up fast at the same time and directly behind one another!!! No one was looking except at the sides...I was running and flailing my arms yelling "WOAH! WOAH!". Miraculously each car braked at the same moment and missed one another by less than eight inches. I tell you, the visibility in many cars these days is not good for these sorts of conditions. Be careful out there.
Christmas Tradition It’s finally December, which means it’s time to start planning all of the Christmas events I’ll attend this year....