Stockhands
Horses for Healing: An Interview with Tim Funk
by
Gina McKnight
No duplication without permission.
“A horse will tell you a lot about
yourself if you listen.”
Facebook
is a great tool for connecting people – and in this case horse people. I was
out of town several weeks ago and noticed a man wearing a jacket with the Stockhands Horses for Healing logo
on the back. I was in a hurry and didn’t have a chance to connect with the man,
but I made a mental note of the logo. When I arrived home, I searched for the
organization and found that I have a Facebook friend, Tim Funk, who is the founder
of Stockhands Horses for Healing! Wow! I was excited. I reached out to Tim
about his program. I have never met Tim in person, but he has invited me to his
stables, which I hope to visit this summer.
Stockhands
Horses for Healing is located in Delaware, Ohio. From their website:
“Stockhands Horses for Healing is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization providing
equine facilitated therapies to veterans, adults, and children with
developmental, mental, physical, and emotional disabilities and challenges.
“Our
mission is to facilitate a positive and non-judgmental environment for
participants and their families. Stockhands is a place where human and animal
relationships can flourish through effective and creative equine assisted
therapy.”
Welcome,
Tim!
GM:
Tim, it is great to have you here. Thank you for connecting! I always begin
with asking about horse history. When was your first encounter with a horse?
TF:
My first encounter with horses was at a very young age. My grandparents had a
couple of horses. Nothing really flashy, mainly pasture pets. They were my
dad’s when he was younger. At the age of 13 I started working as a stall boy
for a local breeder of Appaloosas. The job didn’t pay much but I gained some
experience. After working there for about six months, I purchased a yearling
mare from them and started the journey of horsemanship. I started her under
saddle at the age of two. My father was able to help some with this - he was of
the old school of cowboying them out. So I made a ton of mistakes along the
way. She did turn out to be a decent trail horse. I never took any formal
lessons and was pretty much a passenger until later in life when I relearned
basic riding and training. My grandfather taught me how to do a basic trim as
well. I got way from horses for a while and enlisted in the United States
Marine Corp (1991-1996). During this time I had an opportunity to go to the
Marine Corp Mountain Warfare Training Grounds in Bridgeport, California. There
I was reintroduce to horses and mules. I took a packing course and learned how to
pack and negotiate terrain with mules. I decided at this time that I wanted to
be a farrier when I got out of the Marine Corp. When I got out, I was slated to
go to the Kentucky School of Horseshoeing, but life changed plans and I had to
get full-time employment rather quickly because my wife announced we were
expecting out first child. So horses were put on hold again.
GM:
Thank you for your service. You certainly have an interesting background with
horses! How did Stockhands Horses for Healing begin?
TF:
I struggled with alcohol after getting out of the Marine Corp and was without horses
for a lot of years. So I decided to get back to my roots so to speak. I
purchased a 13yr old Appendix Quarter Horse. Where again I had to relearn what
I thought I knew about riding. I eventually purchased three more horses and my
family of four started trail riding.
A
friend of the family reached out to us and asked if she could bring her
12-year-old Autistic son out to ride one of our horses. Naturally I said yes,
she then told me that he was nonverbal and didn’t want to be touched. So I
picked out the best horse we had, a 4-year-old spotted saddle horse that I
started the right way. This mare was quiet and very willing to please. The day
came for the young man to come out and ride. My daughter had taken that horse
to trail ride that day. The only horse I had available was the grumpy Appendix Quarter
Horse. You had to be an experienced rider on him. He didn’t like to stand still
and would crow hop, pop up in front every time; just full of energy and ready
to go. I rode him before the young man showed up and it wasn’t a great ride… The young man arrived
and came into our small front pasture. He came over to where I had a mounting
block and climbed right on the horse. The first thing I noticed was the horse’s
demeanor totally changed. We stepped away from the block and he hung his head
like an old peanut roller show horse. Every time the young man would shift his
weight in the saddle, the horse would stop and turn his head back to look at
him. We walked around for about ten minutes like this. My first thought that
there was something wrong with the horse. I asked the young man if he was done
and he shook his head, “Yes.” He popped
off the horse and landed on his feet, then his butt, and got back to his feet.
At this time my daughter showed up and came and retrieved the horse. As soon as
they were away from us, the horse went back to his normal high energy prancing
self.
Me
and the young man started to walk back to the pasture gate, about 40 yards away.
He reached over and took my hand and held it till we got to the gate. His mother
was there waiting for us with tears in her eyes. I assured her he was fine, me
thinking she was upset because of his not so graceful dismount. So as I have
learned, when women cry it is generally my fault so I made a haste exit. It
wasn’t till later that night that I learned that he doesn’t hold his mother’s
hand or his father’s or anyone’s.
After
that I started to do some research on equine therapeutic riding and contacted
another friend whose nephew was autistic and wanted to see if I could recreate
the first experience with the same horse. This young man was four-years-old.
The same changes happened with the horse and same change with the new rider. This
is when I decided to Open Stockhands. I found a certified instructor and
a facility to lease with an indoor arena. We opened our doors in July of 2014.
Since then I went through the process of becoming a PATH certified instructor. Currently we have five certified
instructors and service 80 participants a week
GM:
You offer many wonderful programs that connect horses with people; at risk
youth, veterans and first responders, reading with horses, and much more. All
of the programs sound intriguing. How can people enroll for a program?
TF:
those who want to join one of our programs can reach us through our website www.stockhands.org
or email me tfunk@stockhands.org.
GM:
Do participants choose a horse? Or do you assign horses to individuals?
TF:
Depending on the program. We try our best to match participants with an equine
partner that will best suit their needs. Some riders may need a more forward
moving horse to help with stemming or to build more core strength. Or riders
may need a stouter slow-moving horse to be able to better support the rider. Programs
that have the mental health aspect to them, the rider or participant generally
connects with a horse while touring the stables.
GM:
Tell us about your horses. How do you acquire them, how many do you stable, and
what are the requirements for being a Stockhands horse?
TF:
Currently we have 30 equine partners, they range from minis to a 17.3 draft
horse. In the beginning most of our horses where donated. This came with problems
- everyone has the perfect therapy horse and would like to donate, most are up
there in age and come with various lameness issues. We except horse donations
but they have to be between 4-18, sound, and be able to drive, walk, trot, and
canter. They go through a very stringent evaluation period before they are
allowed into the program. Not every horse can do this job. They must be calm
and understanding of what is being asked of them and it can be a lot at times.
We are not only asking our equine partners to carry us around an arena. We are
also asking them to carry our trauma and or emotional baggage.
GM:
Describe a typical day in your life with horses...
TF:
As anyone with horses knows it is not a 9-5 type of job. There is always
something to be done from cleaning stalls, feeding, lessons, stalls again. My
role is program director, instructor, and barn manger. I teach on Monday and
Thursday evenings. I love to watch the growth in our participants - from them
learning to be a little more independent to saying their first words on the
back of their equine partner. Believe it or not, I find great joy in cleaning
stalls. I get to visit with each horse and relax and reflect on our progress,
it is my own Zen Garden and I have sense of accomplishment after each stall. My
favorite time of the day is morning walks into the barn; the smell of hay and
saw dust, hearing the horses nicker when they hear the door open.
GM:
Sounds wonderful. You are helping others while fulfilling your own purpose. What
is the most important aspect of being with horses that people should know?
TF:
Horses live in the now. For the most part, they are reactive verses proactive.
They are not hanging on to their past or preparing for their future. A horse will tell you a lot about yourself if you listen. Horses
will reflect what we are feeling - if I am anxious or nervous, they will be
anxious or nervous. We are a part of their herd by default when we are working
with them.
GM:
What advice do you have for novice riders looking to find their first horse?
TF:
The best advice I can give a new horse owner before buying is to take lessons
and work with a riding program (stalls, feeding, etc.). Know exactly what you
are getting into. Ride as many different types of horses possible and as many
different types of disciplines. Talk and learn from everyone in the industry. You
can never know enough. Constantly learn and keep an open mind.
GM:
What does horsemanship mean to you?
TF:
Over the years my answer to this constantly evolves. In the beginning, it was
about controlling the horse and getting them to do what I wanted. Now it is
more of learning to partner with them, understanding how we can support one
another. Riding as one and not trying to figure out who is in control.
Connect with Tim… https://www.stockhands.org/